Virtual Speed Dating

Virtual speed dating is an online event where singles meet through short, timed video conversations. After each mini-date, participants are rotated to meet someone new.

Participants join a secure video platform at the scheduled time. The host explains the rules, then you’re automatically matched into brief 3–6 minute virtual “dates.” After each round, you indicate whether you'd like to connect with that person. Mutual matches are shared after the event.

Just a device with a camera and microphone (laptop, tablet, or phone), a stable internet connection, and a quiet place where you can chat comfortably.

Typically 60–90 minutes, depending on group size and number of rounds.

Most events include 6–12 mini-dates, though some specialty events may have more or fewer.

That's completely normal! Virtual speed dating is designed to be low-pressure, friendly, and guided by a host. You can even keep notes to help you decide on matches afterward.

Dress comfortably but neatly—similar to what you'd wear on a casual in-person date. A presentable top and good lighting go a long way.

Yes. Only the people you meet will see you, and the host cannot hear your private conversations. Match results are confidential and shared only with you.

You can rejoin the event using the same link. If technical issues prevent participation, many organizers offer a credit or transfer to a future event.

Absolutely. Virtual speed dating is great for shy or introverted individuals because the structure creates natural conversation flow and eliminates awkward small talk.

No. Video is required so participants can engage authentically and fairly. If you have concerns, contact the organizer before the event.

Partipants can complete an exit form and select people they would like to connect with. If people want to meet each other it becomes a match. You’ll receive match contact info after the event.

It happens! Many events offer a discounted or free second event. And it’s still a fun way to practice conversation and meet new people.

Events often come in themes—age ranges, interests, professions, or cultural groups. Check the event listing for details.

Test your camera and audio, set up good lighting, ensure a quiet space, and think of a few conversation starters to ease into each mini-date.

Yes. No personal information is shared unless you match and choose to connect. Always use your best judgment when continuing conversations after the event.

Definitely! Many attendees join several events to maximize their chances of finding a great match.

Register on eventbrite through the event organizer’s website. You’ll receive confirmation and the event link once your spot is secured.